Friday, December 21, 2018



Hey, I want to share something, something that I share daily.
Why you are so pissed off with relationships huh? You write bad about relationship stories, you are manipulating people think to wrong!

These are the questions which I get daily. I am not against the relationship as I know the real value of the relationship, I am against the people who think wrong about the relationship.
Let me describe what you should do when you want to move on.
The thing is when you get completely left by your partner you begin to start feeling different. You are unable to get over your exes and almost cry over the pain daily. And that is okay.

You should understand, there is nothing wrong with you for occasionally daydreaming about the one who got away even if it happened two months or three years ago. It's a human nature, where you are allowed to miss old flames. You are allowed to hold a special place in your heart for them.
Somewhere, in reality, you might never get over them— but you have to accept that they are not the one whom you need.
You have to forget all those things and start to talk to new people.
You have to follow your passions. You have to spend time with friends. You have to date other people. You have to find new reasons to smile. You have to accept they are no longer in your world.
Yes yes you guys will say, "It's easy to say but difficult to do " but guys
I am not saying you have to get over them completely. You only have to accept that they don't exist, they are never coming back to wipe your old tears, and you can build a perfectly happy life without them.

Once you realize that, it doesn’t matter whether they control your mind every once in a while. There are old friends you miss, the old friends whom you haven't meet for a long time.

There is a family member you miss. And there are going to be exes you miss.
They are just a human being, and a population of human beings is higher.
I am not saying this because I am so much experienced about relationships, I am saying this because I have tried to move on and I did.

You have to stop trying so hard to get over them and feeling pathetic when you fail. You might always have love in your heart for them. But you are not always going to wake up thinking about them. You are not always going to hate yourself for losing them.

You are not always going to feel like something is missing from your world without them around. Happiness is always on your way, you have to accept reality.

Besides these motivational lines again, you cannot control who you love. You cannot stop yourself from feeling a certain way, even if you know it is a dreadful goal.

That is why you should stop placing all of your focus on getting over them and focus on accepting they are gone.
Trust me in this case, I mean to say come on think about it, once you accept the relationship is over, you can work on building a better future for yourself.

You can spend more time with friends. You can chase after your dream career. You can even find the new relationships that will definitely beat the old one.
One thing I always say to those who ask me How to Move On?
"The key to living a life without them is to stop worrying about how much you still care about them — and focus on how much you care about yourself"
That day you will get your answer and you will forget motivational lines.

Have a wonderful life ahead! (y)